Hosted lifestyle travel with Hugh & Judy

Leave Your Panties at Home Vacations!

Join Hugh and Judy for hosted lifestyle vacations where new friends are easy to meet, no one pressures you to do anything, and the stories tend to improve after midnight.

Hedonism II
Bliss Cruise
Nude pools and beaches
Clothing-optional decks
Playrooms at most events
Optional scuba adventures

Many trips welcome couples, single ladies, and single gentlemen. Availability varies by event, so ask us which vacation fits you best.

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Lifestyle Travel Without the Awkward Guesswork

We’re Hugh and Judy. We’ve spent years traveling with adventurous couples, visiting lifestyle resorts, boarding clothing-optional cruises, diving warm-water reefs, and proving that growing older does not require growing boring.

Our trips are built around people first. You can arrive knowing only us and leave with a phone full of new friends, inside jokes, and at least one story that begins with, “We weren’t planning to do that...”

New to lifestyle travel? You do not have to perform, impress anyone, or arrive with a laminated instruction manual. Your boundaries are yours. Your vacation should still feel like a vacation... just with better parties.

Experience Hedonism II

Welcome to the adults-only, clothing-optional resort where inhibitions go on vacation, swimsuits have a habit of disappearing, and the people you meet often become the best part of the trip.

There are nude beaches where tan lines go to die, nude pools where strangers become friends by sunset, and hot tubs where the conversation is usually better than anything happening back home.

Nude beach and pool
Nude hot tubs
Theme nights
Scuba diving
Hosted by Hugh and Judy
No-pressure atmosphere

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Take a Look at Bliss Cruise

Bliss Cruise is one of the most unusual vacations on the ocean... clothing-optional pool decks, theme parties, playrooms, interesting people, and sea days that have very little to do with shuffleboard.

We travel, meet people, laugh a lot, and collect the kinds of adventures that often become stories later in our Forever Isn’t Boring books.

Clothing-optional decks
Theme parties
Playrooms
Adult entertainment
Ports and sea days
Hosted by Hugh and Judy

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Join Hugh & Judy’s Next Adventures

The trips below are still ahead of us. Past trips disappear automatically, which is more than we can say for some of the photographs.

Books by Judy & Hugh

True stories about marriage, travel, lifestyle adventures, questionable decisions, and why forever does not have to become a long meeting about the thermostat.

Marriage With a Flexible Guest List book cover

Book 1: Marriage With a Flexible Guest List

Why is butter the key to the first date?

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Destinations, Decadence and Bad Decisions book cover

Book 2: Destinations, Decadence & Bad Decisions

Is there a stripper in our bed?

See Book 2

Age Has Nothing to Do With It book cover

Book 3: Age Has Nothing to Do With It

What is a Grilled Dicky Award?

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From Cootie Corner to Bora Bora book cover

Book 4: From Cootie Corner to Bora Bora

What is an Energizer Unicorn?

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Join us. Get wild. Get wet. Get wicked.

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Why Travel With Hugh & Judy?

You could book the trip yourself. The difference is arriving with people already waiting to welcome you.

Hosted Groups

You do not have to walk in knowing nobody.

First-Time Friendly

We answer the awkward questions before they become awkward moments.

Experienced Hosts

We know the resorts, cruises, and how the trips really work.

Optional Scuba

Several vacations include warm-water diving for those who want it.

No Pressure

Your boundaries are yours. Participate as much or as little as you choose.

Real Friendships

Many guests return because of the people they met the first time.

Questions Couples Ask Us

The questions people usually ask before booking... especially the ones they whisper.

What is Playcate?

Playcate is the home of Hugh and Judy's hosted lifestyle vacations. We travel with guests to Hedonism II, Bliss Cruise, scuba destinations, and other adults-only trips where people can meet before and during the vacation.

Are first-time lifestyle travelers welcome?

Yes. Many guests arrive nervous and leave wondering why they waited so long. We help people meet the group, answer practical questions, and make the first night feel much less like walking into a room where everyone received instructions except you.

Do we have to participate in anything?

No. Your boundaries are yours. Some guests come for the social atmosphere, some enjoy the parties, and some explore more. Consent and respect are expected at every event.

Do we have to be nude?

No. Hedonism II has both nude and clothing-optional areas, and Bliss Cruise has designated clothing-optional decks. You choose what makes you comfortable.

Are there nude pools and nude beaches?

Yes. Hedonism II includes a nude pool, nude hot tub, and nude beach. Other trips may include clothing-optional pools, decks, or beach time depending on the resort or cruise.

Do the trips have playrooms?

Many of the lifestyle events we attend include a designated playroom or play area. The exact setup varies by resort, cruise, and event, and participation is always optional.

Are single men and single ladies welcome?

Many of our hosted vacations welcome couples, single ladies, and single gentlemen. Availability and pricing can vary by event, so contact Hugh and Judy and we will help you find the right trip.

Can we scuba dive on these vacations?

Often, yes. Hugh and Judy are experienced warm-water divers, and several trips include optional diving nearby. Diving is separate from the lifestyle activities, so non-divers will still have plenty to do.

How do we book with Hugh and Judy?

Choose an upcoming trip and use the Travel With Us button. Cruise links connect to our booking identification, while resort trips link to the correct information or booking page.

Traveling Solo?

Many of our hosted vacations welcome couples, single ladies, and single gentlemen. Some events limit the number of single men or use different pricing, so availability depends on the trip.

Tell Hugh and Judy what kind of vacation you want, and we will help you find the event where you are most likely to feel comfortable, meet people, and have a suitcase that comes home suspiciously underused.

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